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‘Ah, Briteeesh!’ 😂😂😂

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🤣🇬🇧

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I enjoyed the re-read, and I love the new ‘do! I hope you grow more comfortable with it as the days pass, but hey—hats are wonderful things!

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Oh Holly, how lovely to see you - I'm so glad you enjoyed the post, and thank you so much for the compliment! Newsflash: a few days after I'd written the post I'm enjoying my short hair so much more - firstly, we've been camping, and it's SOOOO much easier to deal with, and secondly, I've started raiding Jim's supply of hair wax, which is exactly what I need to stick my hair down to where I want it to go. Problem solved!!!

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I’m so glad you are growing accustomed to your new hairstyle, and I agree—sooo much easier to maintain when camping! Can’t wait to see more photos of it!

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Love the haircut! Being 5ft nothing and shrinking I am at the other end of the spectrum. Ordering a drink at a crowded bar can be very problematic but I don’t get a drink 😂😂😘

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I love your new haircut. :).

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I love your new look! Feisty and fun! I don't like fussing with products, styling , even blow drying. Getting out of the shower and ruffling up my hair is the best!

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Thank you very much, Susan! I don't like the fuss of styling and all that either - it's why I only ever used to wear my hair tied back, and only even brushed if I could be bothered - LOL!!!! I loved a previous haircut which was shaved (shaved!!!!!!) very short at the back and high up the sides, with a sweep of very long hair just at the top - that was so easy to deal with - I had to do precisely nothing to it! This short-all-over (but not shaved!) hair takes a bit of effort to get it to go where I want it to, but I just grab a blob of hair wax and rub it in and that makes it do what it's told! 🤣

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I love the haircut! And also the neck and shoulders - you rock it!

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Margreet, that's really kind of you, thank you! After my dubious initial moments of having short hair I'm now really enjoying it - hurrah!!!

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Love it. We call them swimmer's shoulders and it's true - halternecks and bare backs are brilliant for those so blessed!

As for 6 feet tall, so what! You can always see over the crowd and from one who is shrinking as each minute passes, I say - 'Own it!' To which I would also add, 'Bigtime!!!!'

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Oooooh, swimmer's shoulders! I rather like that expression! And yes, seeing over the crowd is really handy - particularly in supermarket aisles or the Christmas shopping crush! Thank you so much! 😊

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Ha, that was fun!

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I'm so glad you enjoyed it, Tom - thanks so much for reading!

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I love your new haircut Rebecca, it looks amazing! However, it's not about what I think but how it makes you feel so I hope you come around to enjoying it.

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Donna, you're so kind - thank you! Actually now that I'm getting used to it I'm enjoying this shorter hair - it's pretty fun already! 😁

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I dunno, Rebecca. Your short hair looks great, and I don't note anything amiss about your shoulders. I'd certainly stand you a drink wherever we met, and never call you "Sir".

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Awww, thanks, Dale! I'm getting used to my hair now, and am already growing to love it! Losing all that length has given me some confidence - so it's very much onwards and upwards (although not in the sense of 'taller' - LOL!!!). 🤣

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Cheers to the new ‘do! You do you!

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Thanks, Amie! I'm beginning to have some fun with it now (thanks to Jim's now dwindling supply of hair wax!!!!)!

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I love the new haircut in your selfie, but I know if you can’t find peace in it, it’s got to go!

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Thanks, Alison! In fact - and I'm glad to say - it's growing on me - it's so very much more convenient, and less stressy than all that hair I used to have (and which I'd only EVER tie back in a rubber band, so it was totally pointless!)! 🤣

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No one is unkinder than our own inner voice - although some of the eejits you cite here are a close second!! After years of feeling bad about my own appearance, an artsy friend shared that famous Edith Sitwell quote: *If one is a greyhound, why try to look like a Pekingese?* and it made me think differently. You on the other hand look fabulous and I loved reading about your triumphant evolution. Such a joyous ending too! xo

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Sue, that's a terrific point about our inner voice - I think we're our own worst enemy sometimes! People, I mean. And thank you so much - I'm enjoying the new haircut better now than when I'd written the introduction to this repost - it seems that all it had needed was a bit of 'product' in it! 😁

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You get to be you, Rebecca, and we love it! Great haircut!

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Thanks, Ron!!!! Now that I'm getting used to the short hair I've found some confidence from somewhere - those scissors have done me the power of good!!! 🙌

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Love the hair! I hope you come to love to once you get over the shock.

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It IS shock, isn't it? Like when a man shaves off his mustache after wearing one for years. He cannot believe his face... It wears off.

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Yes! Exactly like that. My husband had a moustache for the first few years of my knowing him, when he shaved it off I couldn't stop looking at the way his lips moved when he spoke, they looked so different. As you rightly say, it wears off.

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That's so lovely, Janet! 🤣

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'He cannot believe his face....' I love that, Sharron! Dad shaved off his beard accidentally when I was about fourteen. Mum - who hadn't wanted him to grow it in the first place, in fact - said that his face wasn't the same one that had first grown it!!!!!! 🤣

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So funny! Glad you are getting used to your new haircut. It is adorable. I would not be surprised if you went even shorter ( pixie length) next time. It is so easy to care for.

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DEFINITELY going even shorter next time - I'm already trying to resist the giddy temptation of shaved back and sides (I used to get Jim to trim it for me every couple of weeks with his beard trimmer - don't laugh!!!!!!). 🤣

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Not laughing! Sounds daring!

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Thank you very much, Janet! I'm enjoying the short hair more now that I'm getting used to it - in fact, I've got a new level of confidence now that I've ditched all those inches of the stuff that had been weighing me down. 😊

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That's wonderful! So pleased that you've grown to enjoy it, and how lovely that it's given you a confidence boost. I remember having mine cut short many years ago and it felt liberating!

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Rebecca, I had a good laugh! Thank you for this. I totally relate to people mistaking me as a sir instead of a ma'am. Sometimes, I'd raise the pitch of my voice, "no worries!" I'd say in the sweetest, most understanding way and they'll get more flustered. Definitely love the new look. Keep being YOU!

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That raised voice pitch is such a great trick - it's how I got that free drink - LOL!!!!!!!!!! 🤣 Thanks so much, Stella - I'm glad this post made you laugh - I had such fun with it. 😁

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